You are so right. When you have that feeling that something is wrong, believe me something is wrong. You try to avoid the signs because your in shock that this could possibly be happening to you. You pray to God to make things work out, but nothing changes. You change but he doesn't. You forgive and try to move on but you can't. It takes two to make a relationship work. When the other doesn't put in as much as you have, it's time to let go. When the relationships become abusive, whether verbal or physical it's time to let go. Women no matter how much you love, don't avoid the signs. If you can't get help in the beginning and nothing changes, let go and save yourself emotional and physical pain.