I'm sorry but in my opinion fear of commitment is never an excuse for cheating in marriage or any long term commitment. After an affair it is close to impossible to repair marriage.
Unfaithfulness can burn the bridge that bonds any love trust relationship. How do you forgive an affair? It hurts like hell! The darn visions of your cheating spouse making love to someone else burns your soul.
We ask ourselves how could they do this, and why didn't I see the cheating signs. If your married the challenges of divorce and custody alone can drive you mad!
No one person can prevent adultery. The strongest man can't stop a cheating girlfriend just as the most beautiful woman can't stop a cheating boyfriend. Cheating spouses have to want to "not" commit infidelity in their relationship. If not, they're most likely "not" going to stop.
I would like to ask our readers a question that was asked to me. Is parental alienation syndrome an excuse for a cheater? Yes his unfaithful wife said to him that she cheats because her father alienated her. He would make several promises and broke them all. So because of her lack of belief in men, she cheats before they do.
We would love to hear your opinions on that subject. All we could say to that is some people do have personality disorders of the like or just sexual conflict disorders. Unfaithfulness and promiscuous behavior however, are signs of some personality disorders.
Infidelity - Tina, NYC
Hello World! My opinion is that if you catch a cheating boyfriend. Hit the road! After an affair it is so hard to rebuild that trust. As you are trying to forgive an affair how the heck do you know he or she's not still screwing around on you!?
Adultery Help - Unknown-Anywhere USA
Without guilt I can say that I'm a cheating man. Two years ago I found sperm stains on a pair of my wifes lingerie. A pair that I have never even seen before! Since that moment I've been the cheating husband. Separation for me is not an option because of our kids, so I choose a life of "cheating in marriage".
Online Affairs - Stephanie, Sumter, SC
I guess you can say I am a product of "online adultery". Our bad relationship was built around our parenting plans. We never focused on our love. Just the idea of raising a family. I chose to be a stay at home mom. I did not realize that I would become invisible to my cheating husband! Well the more I tried to heal my bad marriage the more he became emotionally unavailable.
Being at home I turned to the internet. I realized myself that what i was doing had the cheating signs all over it. I was having virtual sex and was literally having an emotional affair with someone in cyberspace.
I went privately and sought online counseling. Realizing my internet addiction was no way to help make marriage work. I felt I was destroying it as much as my husband. Of course we are still together and hopefully no longer is he cheating. I left my internet addiction disorder in the past following the advice we received in marriage partnership retreats.
How to Deal with Anything-Letha, USA
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