Father Daughter Relationship! The Purest Male Female Relationship You can ever been Bleesed with!
My Father Daughter Relationship continues to amaze me. The reality that I created someone of the opposite sex blesses me everyday.
In her eyes I see imperfection perfected. In her eyes I see my mother, my sister, even a few of my old teachers. In her eyes I see the women I hurt in the past. In her eyes I see the woman I will spend my future with(her beautiful mother). A daughter is more than just a girl she is the girl that you are giving to the world. Treat her that way!
Most Men that are teenage fathers grow to have a daughter father complex, rather than a daughter father relationship.
The wisest men have a hard time understanding women in relationships, so as young men we tend to underestimate all little girls needs such as:
A daughters need for approval
her want to have a real father daughter love
and the desire she has for a man's protection.
In a father daughter relationship, more often than in mother son relationships, we have to pay close attention to relationship guidelines.
As fathers we must be aware or our "Manly Ways".
Be an appropriate male example to our young queens so they can know what should be expected from the men she will encounter in the future.
Daughters embracing your father and obeying his rules is a must it will lead to a much smoother life.
Men, we must respect our daughters mind all the while instilling the proper behavior she will need to avoid becoming all father's worst nightmare, "the neighborhood slut".
To my former players and flirts we have to teach our daughters the art of war so they don't fall victim, like some of our victims. Think about that for a second!
I once asked a close friend, who didn't care about her promiscuous ways, what does she get from all these men, besides the obvious?
Her reply opened my eyes as a father:
Without hesitations she said
"A piece of my fathers ghost".
Close to tears she continued on to say that when her mother died when she was 8, and her dad stepped right in to raise her right. He never touched or treated her in any way bad, but as her primary source of affection he was emotionally unavailable.
Now the attention she gets from stranger good or bad reminds her of the love she didn't get from her father.
I learned that being a father means more than just providing but also giving of ourself in ways women never had and dads daughters will eventually need.
Every girl wants a Cinderella story, but life can be a lot tougher than any fairy tale.
We have to let them experience life and oh course they will get hurt one day, but your father daughter relationship has to be strong enough "for her to run to you and not away from you".
There are a lot of dysfunctional relationships between fathers and daughters, but if we are man enough to have them we have to be strong enough to hold their hands as we walk out the days of our lives.
A Father daughter relationship is one of the purest of Men Relationships and we all have a story that can help someone else, so feel free to leave your short story or personal relationship advice in the form below. Help someone to avoid the mistake you made...
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