Breakup Stories
Just like breakup poems, and troubled relationship poetry, can help you to understand how to survive a breakup.
Reading some breakup stories can in a twisted since give you a break from your own reality and allow you to see that others have experienced similar pains.
A split-up usually leaves at least one person healing a broken heart. Some heal peacefully and some feed off of revenge in order to heal. For guys getting "girlfriend revenge" usually means simply moving on to another woman and flaunting her. Some women are known for leaving the dreadful break up letter and then calling all her girlfriends for a party telling them to bring divorce gifts!
Once you've gotten over your fall out boy embark on a new found glory and share your romance stories with us! In the meantime. Here is one woman's breakup story that involves infidelity to close to home. She asked that we place it under the "Oh How Stupid Was I" category of breakup stories! Luckily that doesn't exist right!!
Enjoy...
Breakup
Stories pt. 1
On the day of my breakup story I was taking my daughter to the movies, and my boyfriend Josh opted out of going, so I figured it would make for a good girls night out.
Never did I expect the night would end in such disgust. My name is Tammy and I am a single mother. I was dating this guy named Josh whom I was totally in love with. I did my best to give him his space to show him that I did have trust in him.
Well that trust was already known to be misplaced because of the way we met. He was married at the time of our meeting and I came to find out I wasn't his only affair.
He had easy access to meeting women all over because he worked for Fed Ex.
Don't get me wrong I didn't know he was married until it was to late. My feelings had grown so much for him. Mainly because the sex was so good. I can admit that now, but not without kicking myself for not being smarter than that. How could I let sex cloud my judgment so much.
Needless to say his marriage was obviously about over because he and his wife were heading towards a divorce. She knew about the other women and I guess I was the last straw.
How did I find out you ask. Well she called my phone one day asking how I knew him. I of course said he is my man who the hell is this. Her response; his wife! My heart fell in my stomach. She continued to tell me that they had been married for 7 years and that at this present moment I am the sixth girl that he has cheated on her with.
No I didn't get into a yelling match with her. Probably because I was in total shock. All I could do was listen. As hurt as I was I still got on the defense about our relationship. The only words I could utter out of my mouth was well I am pregnant.
Silence held the line for a moment. Then she chimes in oh well lucky you. We have been trying for the past four years and I have not been able to conceive from him. Great now I felt even more like trash.
I knew I was lying but she didn't and I'm sure that lie cut through her like a knife. Her break up stories are going to piss her off!
Hell, he even lied and told me that him and his brother shared a place. I would always go there to see him. How clueless I was. Here I am thinking he's not home sometimes because he has to drive out of town. When his ass is only an in town carrier. He was just living at home with his wife and needed an excuse to not be able to stay with me. Conversation over with her.
I am so pissed, hurt, embarrassed, and ashamed that all I could do was fall to my knees and cry like a baby.
Needless to say a few months later we ended up hooking up again. Oh stupid me.
As my daughter and I get home from the movies I noticed that he was nowhere in the house to be found. His car was outside so where was he. Getting that funny feeling in my gut I decide to just sit on the car and see where he comes from. Low and behold this joker comes out of my neighbors apartment with her hugging him good bye.
He walks around like he doesn't have a care in the world. He said they were just chilling. From the smell of things they were doing a lot more than that. The nerve of this man. Not going out with me and my kid so he can go lay up with my neighbor of all people.
What a damn fool I've been!
Good bye he's gone. That's over. Thank God there was no kid between us! All I could do from that night on was pray to God to heal my soul. Never knowing that as I was playing a part in ruining a marriage I was setting myself up as well to be ruined emotionally.
I have a hard time trusting which makes for difficult relationships. The next year when I went home to visit I ran into his ex-wife and all I could do was apologize to her for what I did. I felt her pain so much that I just wanted to embrace her and tell her not to worry Karma did bite me in the ass!
Once you grow up you realize that it is not good to mess with peoples emotions.
Breakup Stories By:"T.L. From Sacramento"
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