Anger In A Relationship
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Anger
in a relationship and Fear of what we do not know, make
strange bed partners, but they work well together.
Anger, like Fear and the rest of our emotions, has a purpose. The
direction in which that purpose driven emotion goes depends solely on
our free will.
It often seems like the purpose of Fear is to evoke Anger. We mostly
get angry when we don't understand something, or when we get completely
fed up with dealing with something or someone.
That anger often leads to a very destructive path. Anger or Fear
without CONTROL can separate or
destroy relationships, businesses, and even families.
"But Love is never
lost unless you choose not look for it, so if you have lost your love
because of anger or fear there are always ways to get that LOVE back in
your LIFE."
Communication in relationships is the single most important factor when
you're faced with anger in a relationship.
If the problem is the other person find a way to let them know:
Write them a letter expressing the problem and giving them
the option to write you back or talk privately.
Talk during your alone time(right before you go to sleep or
as soon a you wake up, so you know there won't be many distractions).
If your anger is not with your partner remember no form of
communication works better than plain, in your face truth about how
your feeling. Let the other person know how serious you are and make
sure they're listening.
Ladies you can even go as far as to express your feelings
in lipstick on the bedroom mirror...
But seriously, communication is important.
Bottled up anger can easily
turn into hate, so express your feelings to your soulmate, father,or
friend.
Remember...
"Love
listens and if they love you they should do the same."
Ending relationships because of anger can lead to a life where you
become emotionally unavailable. Spending your life getting even with
people who hurt you is a waste of your time.
"Let Love Live Life"
..and if that person hurt you purposely without an apology you don't
need them in your life.
Letting go of a relationship can be easier said than done, but making
relationships work requires a lot of life energy so be careful who you
devote yours to.
Pay close attention and don't let Anger in a relationship or Fear of
what might happen stop you from enjoying life and the joys of
relationships or the pains of love.